That report from the World Health Organization shocked that every sixth human being in the world is alone. Crores of people in the world are living a life of absolute silence by being content with broken relationships and dialogue. In the right way, these silence within a human being has been millions of lives. Ironically, the worst victims of this crisis are getting young. Of course the complications of life have increased. There are many kinds of challenges. The gap between generations has intensified with the expansion of science and technology. Being materialistic of thinking has raised the sky of our aspirations high. But not being able to sit imperiously is expanding frustration and depression. Due to which despair pushes us towards loneliness. To say, social media is being expanded revolutionary. But its reality is virtual. Thousands of friends from a person may be on social media forums, but in realty’s life the person is absolutely lonely. Artificial dialogue of virtual friends can’t solve our life questions. Definitely artificial relationships can’t strengthen the fabric of our real relationships. Indeed, the common belief in people has been strong that he can do everything if he has money. Due to which she has made limited access from the neighbourhood to the workplace. That is why despite the crowd around us and thousands of friends of online life, the person is left to live in solitude. The right thing is that people do not behave sensitive to one’s suffering and suffering of the mind. There is a sway of artificials all over. Our meeting festivals have also now climbed the offering of appearances and artificial hunts. We have to churn out the factors that led to a person being constantly lonely in private life.
Ironically, the effectiveness of our words has also been reduced somewhere due to artificiality. The slander person has constantly started to be oriented towards lonely life. The changing nature of our joint families is also at its core. The elder elders of the first household used to withstand some shock or pressure effortlessly. All used to combat economic and social crises. The frequent complication of expensive life and working conditions of cities is deepening the crisis. This position and complex in families where both husband and wife are working and children are living in hostels and boarding school. Gradually it reaches the lonely depression. The slander that takes the form of a psychiatric disease, which even the victim in getting treatment begins to hesitate. The person’s return from this situation is not even comfortable. When we speak of the WHO figure that every sixth person in the world is in the grip of loneliness, it is not hard to guess the total number that is actually suffering from it. That figure of the World Health Organization shocked that loneliness is ending the lives of eight lakh people each year. Which shows that the person has not only been isolated from the society and its working environment but is also cut from the family. The top industrialists of the country last days had urged to increase working hours in offices. An entrepreneur even said what is necessary to see the wife’s only face by staying in the house. It was an senseless response. There are already many kinds of problems being observed in the young generation by the pressure of work conditions. The new generation is already feeling suffocated due to the bitter and distasteful conditions of non-fulfilment of resentment, aspirations. The frustrations stemming from the complexity of work conditions on it can push them towards a lonely life. In such a situation, social engagement, dialogue and sensitivity will only remove loneliness.
Vijay Garg Retired Principal educational columnist Eminent Educationist street kour Chand MHR Malout Punjab
